Tuesday, July 21, 2009
connection is back
it's a fireman post
its been days since she is gone.. feeling so empty and don't know what to do..
well today, i took my ippt and i achieved a gold standard, but there is no monetary
award...some of people say that "Ivan, give u 6 months and u will have difficulties
getting silver." i snub back. "we will see how its goes, who will have the last laugh"
last night i called up my crazy cousin for a drink, went to his usual place. (lot, stock, barrel).
had a couple of pints and reached home before 2am.
people are skeptical."why am i getting married at such a young age... nowadays people or rather guys would want to delay and "siam" at all cost "
but i am different.people "celebrate" if their partner is in overseas but i don't. i had been there done that, there isn't a need for me to "celebrate"; i love staying at home. If you want to ask me out for a drink, just call me. i love to drink; beer tasting. (";)
you see the point.another group of people will ask "Are you prepared for married life? It's not a game, its for life."
people will ask
stupid question like "you all just get tgt so short, know each other also not enough, wait argue abit only wan to divorce. u know each other living habits liao anot, wait cannot adapt to it then everyday argue"
although you might be elder or my senior, i forgive you, you are
mainstream people but i am not.
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food for thought session!!!- to plan a wedding is not easy thing sia.. u must need people to help u, jus alone the 2 of u is not enough!!
- stay calm and relax, if u plan well, there is always ample of time..
- if u gana "screw" by ur partner, learn from your mistake; it take 2 hands to clap.
- attend counselling, seek professional help, let professional people look into your marriage (men are ego and they are often blinded by the simplest thing)
- chill relax, have a good laugh. u earn it cos its ur life, its your show!!!
- love Him and He will answer.
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i miss the days when u r around.
i miss your face.
i miss your arms holding onto me.
i miss your eyes looking deeply into mine.
i miss u grace hun hun.
